Empathy is a powerful force that connects us to one another. It's the ability to step into someone else's shoes, feel their pain, and offer support. However, not all empathy is created equal. While some people naturally feel deep, genuine empathy, others might put on a show of empathy for self-centred reasons. This performative empathy is more about gaining attention, admiration, or social approval than truly understanding and caring for others.

What Is Genuine Empathy?

True empathy comes...

In every relationship, there's a silent factor that plays a pivotal role in its health and growth: Emotional Intelligence (EQ). This ability to tune into, understand, and manage our emotions and those of others can deeply influence the quality of our relationships. So, when one partner struggles with EQ, it can introduce unique challenges. Let's delve deeper into this intricate relationship between EQ and our well-being.

The Facets of Emotional Intelligence (EQ)
Think of emotional intelligence...

I notice this about people A LOT: people do things, say things, don't say certain things, or don't do certain things, TO BE NICE. 

While I understand that there is always a time and place to say things or do things BUT to betray self to appear nice to others and to be liked is one of the most TOXIC things to do to SELF.

It is ok not to be nice. We are not obligated in any way to be nice just because:

• we fear being judged
• we want others to like us
• we want to let people think we are a...