We all like to think we’ve got it together. “I’m fine,” you tell yourself. “I know how to handle my emotions.” But here’s the uncomfortable truth: most of us don’t.

And it’s not your fault. You don’t know what you don’t know.

What happens when emotions are ignored, misunderstood, or buried? They don’t magically disappear. They sit quietly in the background, building up pressure until something breaks:

• Your body. Chronic...

In a world driven by likes, shares, and endless validation from external sources, the idea of seeking connection with oneself feels… almost revolutionary, doesn’t it? People everywhere are searching for deep, meaningful relationships—with partners, friends, colleagues—anyone but themselves. And yet, this relationship with “self” is the most important and the one that, ironically, we often ignore.

Let’s clear up a common misconception right away:...

How often do we stop and really think about the power of asking a good question? Not just a surface-level, polite question, but one that creates room for someone to express themselves fully. Questions hold so much potential—not just for understanding someone else but for transforming the way we connect, think, and grow.

The truth is, asking questions is one of the most underrated tools in communication. When done mindfully, it’s not just a way to gain information; it’s an...

Weaponised incompetence happens when someone pretends they can’t handle a task—or does it so poorly that someone else has to step in and take over. Whether it’s a friend dodging responsibility, a family member refusing to share household chores, or a colleague dumping extra work on the team, this behaviour creates an unfair balance. Over time, it breeds resentment, exhaustion, and frustration for the person picking up the slack. 

The problem? It’s so normalised...

Have you ever wondered if you see the glass half-full or half-empty? Whether we lean towards optimism or find ourselves bracing for the worst, understanding our mindset can shape our lives in surprising ways. No matter where you find yourself, everyone has a mix of positive and negative tendencies, and becoming aware of these can help you take steps towards a healthier mindset.

In this article, we’ll explore what it really means to have a positive or negative outlook, how to assess your...

Just Let It Go’ Is Lip Service—Here’s the Truth About Real Healing

I’ve been on the spiritual growth and personal development path for over 25 years. Early on, I was convinced that “mind over matter” and positive thinking would lead me to a more enlightened state. Spoiler alert: they didn’t quite work out that way.

Sure, positive affirmations gave me a temporary lift, but they never touched the deeper traumas and unsettled feelings that kept bubbling...

Have you ever tried opening up about your feelings, only to be met with a dismissive, "Oh, it’s not that big of a deal"? Or maybe someone told you to "just get over it" when you shared something deeply personal? If so, you've experienced psychological invalidation. It’s a sneaky, everyday form of emotional abuse that happens all too often. Sadly, many of us have come to accept it as normal. But guess what? It's not okay, and it's time to break the cycle.

What is Psychological...

In any relationship—whether it’s romantic, familial, or friendship—emotional responsibility plays a key role in keeping things healthy. When people take ownership of their actions and how those actions affect others, relationships have the space to thrive. On the flip side, when people dodge responsibility, blame others, or refuse to change harmful behaviours, relationships can become toxic quickly.

What does emotional responsibility look like? Basically it is how it shapes...

Ever feel like you’re running in circles with someone you love? Like one of you is always chasing, and the other is playing hide-and-seek but forgot to tell you where they’re hiding? Congratulations—you’ve entered the wild ride known as the anxious-avoidant relationship cycle.

This pattern shows up when one person craves closeness (anxious attachment) and the other feels like closeness is an emotional straitjacket (avoidant attachment). It can feel like both of you...

The Role of the Cycle Breaker
Do you feel that your journey is somehow bigger than just your own story? Like you’re carrying more than just your own choices, and instead, you’re holding pieces of your family’s past as well? If so, you may be the one chosen to break the cycle—chosen to end generational patterns and guide your lineage into a future free of the burdens from the past.

Being the cycle breaker is a significant calling. It means facing what others have left...