We’ve all been there—left wondering why someone pulled away, why a relationship changed, or why someone didn’t show up in the way we had hoped. It’s human nature to search for answers, to try and make sense of it all. But in that search, we often lose ourselves in endless loops of overthinking, carrying the weight of things we were never meant to hold. The truth is, we can’t control what others do. Real peace begins when we stop trying to manage what’s outside our hands and focus on how we respo...

 We often find ourselves holding onto grudges, unable to forgive either ourselves or others. This strange attachment can become a significant burden in our lives. Holding onto past hurts and resentment only keeps us trapped in a cycle of negativity. It’s important to understand that letting go of grudges is not about condoning the wrongs done to us but about freeing ourselves from the chains of bitterness and anger.

The Imaginary High Ground

Our sense of righteousness can make us feel superior...

In a world where emotional maturity is not always the norm, those who have reached a higher level of emotional intelligence can sometimes feel like outsiders. Emotional maturity involves a deep understanding of oneself, the ability to regulate emotions, maintain patience, and exhibit empathy and understanding towards others. However, living in a society that often values quick reactions, and superficial connections, and avoids deep introspection can pose unique challenges for emotionally mature ...